Stepping out of My Comfort Zone With a Plunging Romper

|| Romper: Tobi [c/o] || Shoes: Kate Spade (fall 2016, similar style) || Necklace: The Impeccable Pig || Ring: Tiffany & Co. || Photos: Melanie Foster Photography ||

Life is an adventure about finding yourself and feeling confident in your body. Believe it or not, my positivity journey had a little rough start. I graduated from high school ten years ago, and since then, my body has changed so much! However, one thing has stayed the same; I still do not have cleavage. In high school, people constantly teased me about not having womanly features. For example, one nickname that gave me nightmares for years: surfboard. Because I was as flat as a surfboard. If I am being genuine with you, it took me a long time to finally come to peace with it. Over the past year, I have actually started to accept my body in a way I never have before. With that change, I have also begun trying new clothing silhouettes and styles.

In the last year, I have found a new love for rompers and jumpsuits. They make me feel like a total boss! I slip one on, and it's an instant confidence booster. When I saw this Tobi romper, I knew I wanted to be brave enough to try it on. My measurements are tiny up top and large on the bottom, so I ordered a size large. The sleeves were a tad too long, but I was happy with the fit everywhere else. To make this look work without a malfunction, sticky boobs are a must-have! If you don't own any of these, I highly recommend it. They have saved me on more than one occasion. I have never in my entire life wore an article of clothing this revealing. Looking at these photos, I don't know why in the heck I was so nervous.

The thing that really ties this look together, in my mind, is the necklace. I didn't have a long delicate necklace in my lineup to really do this neckline justice. It was time to go shopping! I hit up The Impeccable Pig in Oklahoma City. I explained to the girls in the store what I was wearing, and we looked together to find the perfect accessory to complete this look. As you can see, it's actually longer than the cutout, so I tucked it into the romper. I am looking forward to wearing this again to spice things up a notch.

Here's the deal, if I, Lindsey Davidson a Tobi size large, can wear this outfit and fell fearless and sexy--so can you! Clearly, you don't have to wear this same outfit, but do you get what I am saying? Your scale number, and your clothing numeric number, does not decrease or increase your value as a person. You are beautiful no matter what! It's about finding an outfit that makes you feel confident and secure in your own body, even if you need to give yourself a mini pep talk in the mirror before you hit the streets!